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8 Most Common Reasons Why Marriages Fail

7:07 PM Daniel's Chronicle 9 Comments

Why Marriage Fail
Marriage is a stand-out amongst the most critical bonds two individuals can make with one another. Dating and marriage is different this days. In today"s society, more than 50% of all marriages fail for one reason or another.
The fact is that relationships, whether dating or married, are full of ups and down. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success.
There are hundreds of reasons why Relationship be it dating or marriage  fails. In days article i will be sharing with you 8 Most Common Reasons Why Marriages Fail in our society today.


1.Inability to resolve conflict.

Couples whose peace existence has been occupied by critics, disagreement, and argument . This are destructive calamities when its successful have its way. Failure to recognise and resolve matters when its fresh results instability. Augment and disaster can be controlled only if both lover safeguard their companionship with total respect-respect themselves and their point of view also. They avoid abuses or any action that could lead to conflict and settle their differences Asap when matter arises.


2.Lack of communication
.Communication is relevant just like air is to human survival. Every unhealthy, abusive, negative relationship sip from the same Holy Grail,  its either lack efficient communication or none at all.  Many employs inappropriate pattern. Despicable, blames, judging their wrongs, character instead accepting and making use of communication properly.



3.Abusive, blaming, complaining unnecessarily rather than appreciating your partner, loving them unconditionally. Over underrating leads to negative feelings which one end up developing destructive behaviour. This in turn cut communication, failure to revive things smartly can wreak relationship.

4.Developing Bad Assumptive Pattern..We live in a society where people harbour the bad experience,events and forget the good compliment and happy moment. The assumptive pattern employed by some partners are poisonous .People assume to be mind readers,a god who knows what they can't actually prove beyond reasonable draughts .There are positive constructive  assumptions relationships can mimic but they avoid it and cling to those who tears apart the bond. If you want your relationship to pass a test of time don't assume or auto suggest .Make effective use of communication with total avoidance of abusive terms criticism,blames,mockery but directly and respectively.

 6.IDGAF Attitude.  Negative feelings paves,it could be due to the world depression,stress from work.When negative feelings is permitted to take charge, its dangerous. Skilled couple don't just freak out but try to understand each other, failure to implement vital mechanism leads to childish opposite reaction--Avoiding each other  won't do any good.

7,Expecting Perfection..Flaw are integral part of human.No one can avoid them forever.Every healthy relationship is the union of two people with flaws. Its takes patience unconditional loves and a forgiving heart to survive .Inability to forgive and forget and accept people as they are quench the burning flames. Couple who rewriting history relationship don't last because they expect perfection-the height no one has ever reached.

8.Wrong Foundation..Many unhealthy relationships,breakup,divorce are products of faulty foundation "You cannot build a dream on a foundation of sand". 50 percent of relationship don't originate from genuine  or base on love but Lust .They requirement are unrealistic,
people intentionally love for selfish and material wants.For money and pleasure, things falls apart when all this expectation turn unrealistic,when little conflict ,argument occurs no amount of conflict resolvent technique will make peace reign even if it does ,since it was base on pretends and reasons it will definitely break off.

Any one who wants healthy and lasting relationship should erase fantasy, loving for reasons and seeking person perfection where its impossible.

Also Read: 5 SECRETS TO A SUCCESSFUL LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE

Love is a crazy consuming flame, it power up our hormone making it confusing to understand if it really love or deception. Fantasies and picture perfect impression can be pretence .Its advisable not to belong to that insane asylum of those that love   drove insane.
Getting to know someone "Courtship" is really relevant, its a process but this days people are so impatience so, they attached to anyone,quickly without thorough examination and end up falling out of loving. GETTING Too Serious Too Quickly without taking time to explore more just to avoid the aftermath of blind love.

Excessive Jealousy,Selfishness __Jealousy is pretty normal,every one jealous once in their live time but excessive and uncontrolled jealousy is one of the frequent cause of breakup .Lack of trust and jealousy is poisonous .Insecurity takes the blame and failure to verify assumptions is deadly.

9 comments:

  1. Failure of marriages are due to miscommunications and misunderstandings. These 8 reasons are on point. This should be read first for awareness.

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  2. Communication is very essential in all types of relationships and more so when it comes to marriage. A lot of people fail at this and yet they don't even realize what the real problem is. Great post, thanks for sharing

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  3. Everything here is correct, based on my observation. Though I have a complete family, I grew up surrounded by broken families and usually, number 3 is the reason. Marriage will work if both will do their parts in making it work.

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  4. i love this post daniel this is all true! for me , no. 3 is the most important for me if there is no respect for each other there will be an abusive relationship

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  5. epic post!! all true, unfortunately this is seen from another perspective and sometimes while your inside the relationship, you will not be able to see what you were exactly doing. Hope those who are undergoing some problems in their relationships will be able to see this post.

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  6. I think some couples can't compromise so they end up having differences which results to separation.

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  7. I must say we also have those misunderstandings sometimes but we really resolve anything that had happened between us. I'm marrying my fiance soon and upon reading this, it came to my attention that we should always find time to communicate and resolve conflicts between us properly.

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  8. Super post! Totally agree and everything you post here is correct, Communication is an essential in marriages. Thanks!

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  9. I agree with your post. Everything is relatively correct. A relationship should not be abusive. It should not be one sided. You both have to make each other happy not rip each other apart.

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